I am staying with my parents-in-law and sister-in-law.
Staying with them is not a bad things... at least when I am tired somebody is there to help me look after my boy and I can rest a while. Of cuz you won't have your privacy life with your hubby too much as there are "Too Many" people in the house! Sometimes it is abit inconvenience too... however with them at home at least some of your housework they will take care of it... like dinner, washing etc! Of cuz everybody have their own living habit and there are times we will have some argument but after that we will forget everything. But nowadays who will want to stay with their parents-in-law?! Of cuz if I have a choice I will want to stay on my own but just that staying on my own a lots of things I have to do myself. That's why there are advantages and disadvantages. Everytime I remind myself that I have to love and care for them as though they are my real parents! Since hubby and I are married we share our love and care to both our parents no matter what even to grandparents!
Staying with them is not a bad things... at least when I am tired somebody is there to help me look after my boy and I can rest a while. Of cuz you won't have your privacy life with your hubby too much as there are "Too Many" people in the house! Sometimes it is abit inconvenience too... however with them at home at least some of your housework they will take care of it... like dinner, washing etc! Of cuz everybody have their own living habit and there are times we will have some argument but after that we will forget everything. But nowadays who will want to stay with their parents-in-law?! Of cuz if I have a choice I will want to stay on my own but just that staying on my own a lots of things I have to do myself. That's why there are advantages and disadvantages. Everytime I remind myself that I have to love and care for them as though they are my real parents! Since hubby and I are married we share our love and care to both our parents no matter what even to grandparents!
2 comments:
i can fully understand your feeling. Staying alone wasn't good too as got to do everything by ourself. But its a different feeling for it coz its still our own home.
Staying with in-laws is also a great adventage as there are ppl to help u in housework and even a better and healthier meal for you.
Most impt is that we learnt to appreciate whatever we had. So life can go on happily. :)
I had came to accept the fact that I gotta stay wif the MIL as well. T_T
BUT i will definately make my point clear that my place is not a hub! His sisters and children CANNOT everyday come my place for free food and bath and electricity! They can use it unless they pay me money!
Post a Comment